We all feel disappointments in our lives from time to time.  The reaction we get from others about things that are important to us is disappointing, sometimes even when it is very positive.  But because it did not fulfill our expectations it resulted in disappointment or we lose our enthusiasm for a bit.

This kind of thing happens when we are thinking in terms of expectations instead of possibilities.  So what if someone didn’t react the way you were expecting and hoping?  Things like that are going to happen in your life over and over.  But if your goals are understood to be only a possibility for another higher purpose then you can easily bounce back and get back on track. 

When things like that happen get away from it all maybe by just taking a comfortable drive alone in your car.  Go back to your dream of the legacy of your life.  How does this disappointment affect that legacy? 

Actually it does it no harm at all!  In fact it is an opportunity to enhance that legacy by your example to your loved ones of how you handled disappointments and turned them around into positive possibilities.

Then review the situation objectively without any of the disappointment thinking.  What are the cold hard facts and realities?  Did you do something with the wrong intentions or did you have unrealistic expectations?  What are all the positive results that came from that unexpected reaction and situation? 

Make a list of all the positive possibilities of how you could turn this situation into something powerful for yourself and your loved ones.  What are all of the positive ways that you can think of that will enhance the big possibility of the legacy of your life and help your loved ones and others?

Now begin to select the best ones of these and focus on what you can start doing right now to make that possibility come to life, to be exciting and powerful and fun.  That is an example of how to use the ideas toward the life of your dreams in everyday life when you feel disappointments. Visit this site regularly for more blogs about how these ideas can be used in your life. 

And, go to the following link, fill in your name and email address and click the submit button and you’ll receive a link to download our free e-workbook immediately. It will help you start thinking in terms of exciting new possibilities for your life, which is the first step in believing you “can” do and have what you want out of life.  

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Love,

Jerry W. Willis

www.jerrywwillis.com

http://thelifeofyourdreamsbooks.com

To live the life of your dreams you have to first believe achieving this way of life is possible. Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.”He also said, “One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.”

I have a brother-in-law I love. He has a wonderful sense of humor and a very strong interest in the political issues of our country. He obviously has a lot of time on his hands because he is retired. But what does he do? He works like mad to send out humor about political issues of the day to his family and friends. I’ll bet he is just like me in that he ‘works’ longer hours now than when he had a job, yet he loves every minute of it. Life is good when you are doing what you love!

One of the key ideas in my new book is that it is part of everyone’s Purpose in Life to help their loved ones and others in the world realize their potential. So I have suggested to my brother-in-law the possibility of setting up a website/blogsite/newsletter like mine, where he can share his great humor and political ideas and love with many more people. And I will do my best to help him every step of the way.

Now think about the implications if he were to follow through and bring these possibilities into being.

He would:

1. Find great energy and excitement in being able to share his ideas with more people.

2. See new possibilities open up. For example, later he might write a book to share his ideas with even more people.

3. Have the possibility of making a lot of money while doing what he loves and does for free right now.

4. Develop new ways (possibilities) to impact our country by his influence – making a positive and powerful difference for his loved ones and others!

5. Possibly help all of his loved ones realize their potential by his example and by sharing with them some of the money he made.

6. Be living the life of his dreams!

That’s what these ideas offer as a possibility to all of us.

To learn more about possibility thinking and how it is just one step in building a life and career around the things you love most, receive our new free e-workbook, Starting the Journey to the Life of Your Dreams.  

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Many people want to change their lives, yet they just don’t know how. Here’s a reader who wants to make a BIG life change:

I need to change my life! Currently I work as a restaurant supervisor at a large hotel here in California. I have this dream to work in London. I don’t have any savings at this point. How can I make this dream a reality? I am 52 years young. Thanks!

Wow! It’s good to see that you know what you want, and you are fairly specific about this. You want to live and work in London. If you work as a restaurant supervisor at a large hotel in California, it should be “doable” to find a similar job in London, if that is what you want. However, you need to start doing your homework right now.

You don’t mention whether or not you have ever been to London. If you haven’t actually traveled there, you might first start saving for a trip to London to see if it really is the place you’ve been dreaming about. Then, once you’re there, you can do some investigating. Find out what you need to do in order to move to England and work there. If you travel there, it will be easier to find out this information.

No doubt, you will need some sort of work permit and you might need to actually have a job set up in England first in order to get this permit. But you might be able to get a permit once you get there and start searching for a job. Either way, you need to know this before you can make other plans. So, either make plans to travel there to get more information or use the Internet to find out as much as you can about what is required to live and work in London.

Next, do you work for a chain of hotels? If so, could you be transferred to their London hotel and work in the restaurant there? Find out.

You don’t say whether you want to stay in the same line of work that you’re in now. So maybe you would like to do other work in London. Figure out what type of work you really, really want to do in London. Then, start searching for that type of work on the internet. There are all sorts of job boards. Just scout around on them to see what types of positions are available.

You might also find an online forum with members who live in London. Is there a forum where people talk about the best restaurants, hotels, etc. in London? If so, join it and just “listen” to the conversations there for a few weeks. Eventually, introduce yourself and tell people about your plan to move to London without giving them too much personal information. You might be surprised at how helpful people can and will be.

Any kind of move will require money. Figure out what it will cost to move to London. You don’t say whether you will have household items and furniture to take with you or whether you’d be happy renting a room in someone’s home or you hope to find a furnished apartment. Consider all the possibilities, then see which is the most “doable” option for you at this point. It might not be the ideal housing arrangement at first. But if it will allow you to live in London (which is your dream), once you have worked there for a few months and have accumulated some cash, you can find other options.

You might also look for other online forums related to relocating, then you can find out how other people decided to make a big life change by moving to another country.

Everyone has dreams. But to make those dreams come true you have to start taking action. But taking action can be fun! And, once you start to take action to make your dreams come true, you’ll be suprised at all the assistance that seems to start coming your way.

In my new book, The Life of Your Dreams - Building Your Life and Career Around the Things You Love Most - you’ll find out how realizing your life’s purpose can help you attain the life of your dreams - whether that life is in California or England. The book will be available in 2008, so we hope you’ll read it.

Good Luck!

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